Self-Love, Sovereignty, and Starting Over: What We Learned from Jonathan Aslay
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Self-Love, Sovereignty, and Starting Over: What We Learned from Jonathan Aslay

When most people think about self-love, they picture self-care routines, soothing rituals, or inspirational quotes. But in my recent conversation with Jonathan Aslay, one of America’s leading midlife self-love coaches, he reminded us that true self-love is something much deeper—and much harder. It is the courageous act of taking responsibility for your emotional life, examining your patterns, and reconnecting with the parts of yourself that have been buried by trauma, heartbreak, and identity loss.

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Gray Divorce After 50: Hidden Losses, Healing, and Reinvention
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Gray Divorce After 50: Hidden Losses, Healing, and Reinvention

Gray divorce—divorce occurring after age 50—is one of the fastest-growing relationship trends of our time. In fact, as my guest Una Metz, LICSW, shared on the podcast, the rates of gray divorce have doubled for couples over 50 and tripled for those over 65. And she sees it firsthand: in just two days, two women in their seventies reached out for support.

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From Numb to Alive: How Reclaiming Your Inner Voice Can Change Everything
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

From Numb to Alive: How Reclaiming Your Inner Voice Can Change Everything

Depression doesn’t always look like sadness. Sometimes it looks like numbness—moving through life without joy, without emotion, and without purpose. That’s how empowerment teacher David Allen Brown described his experience on the Bent Not Broken podcast, and his story offers a powerful roadmap for anyone navigating divorce recovery, emotional burnout, or identity loss.

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When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce

One of the most painful truths about divorce is that words can suddenly change meaning.

Fair becomes punishment.
Love becomes leverage.
Connection becomes control.

This isn’t just about property. It’s about power — and the deep wound that forms when someone you once trusted chooses harm over humanity.

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💔 From Broken to Balanced: Healing After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

💔 From Broken to Balanced: Healing After Divorce

In this powerful conversation, host Deborah Griffiths sits down with Dr. JC Doornick—father, mentor, entrepreneur, podcaster, author, and founder of Make Sense Academy. Together, they dive deep into the realities of divorce, resilience, and rebuilding life with purpose.

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Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Divorce: Learning to Rise Again
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Rebuilding Self-Esteem After Divorce: Learning to Rise Again

In this powerful episode of Bent Not Broken, host Deborah Griffiths sits down with licensed professional counselor, podcast host, and author Sonia Krishna Chand. Together, they dive into the emotional challenges of divorce, the journey of rebuilding self-esteem, and the practical steps you can take to reclaim your sense of identity and self-worth.

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