I Want More, But I’m Scared to Take the Leap
What That Really Means and How to Move Forward
Have you ever felt a deep pull in your heart whispering, “There’s more for you than this”? I know I have felt this way a few times in my own life.
So what’s pulling at your heart? Maybe it’s a new career path, a bold move to start your own business, a dream to write your story, or simply the desire to live your life on your terms. But as strong as that desire is, so is the fear. And so you sit… stuck between the life you know and the one calling your name.
That inner conflict—wanting more but fearing the unknown—is prevalent during life transitions. You might recognize it if:
You feel restless or unfulfilled, even when life seems “fine” on the outside.
You daydream about new possibilities but quickly talk yourself out of them.
You say things like “maybe someday,” “what if I fail,” or “who am I to do that?”
These are all signs you’re not lacking clarity but you’re facing fear.
What’s Really Holding You Back?
Often, it’s not the leap itself that’s scary. It’s the fear of failure, rejection, or not being good enough. Our brains are wired for safety, and the unknown feels threatening even if it could lead to a more fulfilling life.
How to Move Forward
1. Acknowledge the fear – Name it. Don’t try to push it down. Fear loses power when it’s brought into the light.
2. Get clear on your “why” – What do you want more of? Freedom? Purpose? Peace? Your “why” will anchor you when the fear rises.
3. Take one small step – You don’t need to leap—just move. A phone call. A journal entry. Signing up for a workshop. Momentum builds courage.
4. Surround yourself with support – Coaches, mentors, or community can help you rewrite the story of fear into one of faith.
You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just need to trust that your desire for more is a sign—it’s time. Not for perfection, but for progress.
Ready to take your first bold step? Let’s talk. I’m here to walk with you.
FAQs, "Taking the Leap"
1. What does "Take the Leap" mean in this context?
"Take the Leap" refers to embracing courage to step out of your comfort zone, pursue bold opportunities, or make life-changing decisions despite fear or uncertainty. It’s about prioritizing growth over stagnation.
2. How do I overcome the fear of failure when taking a leap?
Fear of failure is natural. Acknowledge it, reframe failure as a learning tool, and focus on the potential rewards of taking action. Break your goal into smaller steps to reduce overwhelm and build confidence.
3. How do I know if it’s the right time to take a leap?
There’s rarely a "perfect" time. Assess if the risk aligns with your values, goals, and long-term vision. If hesitation stems from fear rather than practical concerns, it may be a sign to move forward.
4. What are actionable steps to prepare for a big leap?
Clarify your "why" (purpose).
Research and plan (but avoid overplanning).
Build a support system.
Start small to test the waters.
Commit to a deadline to avoid procrastination.
5. How can I handle uncertainty after taking a leap?
Embrace flexibility, practice mindfulness to stay grounded, and focus on what you can control. Uncertainty is part of growth—view it as an adventure rather than a threat.
6. What are common mistakes people make when taking a leap?
Letting perfectionism paralyze progress.
Ignoring red flags due to impulsivity.
Underestimating the emotional toll of change.
Isolating themselves instead of seeking support.
7. What if I fail after taking the leap?
Failure is not the end—it’s feedback. Reflect on lessons learned, adjust your approach, and remember that resilience is built through challenges. Many successes are born from prior setbacks.
8. How do I stay motivated during the transition?
Celebrate small wins, revisit your core motivation regularly, and surround yourself with inspiring stories or mentors. Accept that motivation fluctuates—discipline and routines will carry you forward.
9. Can I take a leap while still being responsible (e.g., financially stable)?
Yes! Boldness doesn’t require recklessness. Create a safety net (e.g., savings, part-time work) and balance risk with practicality. Responsible leaps involve strategic planning.
10. What are the long-term benefits of taking a leap?
Even if the outcome isn’t what you expected, leaps build resilience, expand your skills, and boost self-confidence. They often lead to unexpected opportunities and a deeper sense of fulfillment.
Until next time,
Coach Deborah
Website: www.brokentoboldness.com
Email: deborah@brokentoboldness.com
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