When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce

One of the most painful truths about divorce is that words can suddenly change meaning.

Fair becomes punishment.
Love becomes leverage.
Connection becomes control.

This isn’t just about property. It’s about power — and the deep wound that forms when someone you once trusted chooses harm over humanity.

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💔 When Everything Changed: Reclaiming Your Voice After Divorce and Emotional Abuse
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

💔 When Everything Changed: Reclaiming Your Voice After Divorce and Emotional Abuse

In this powerful episode of Bent Not Broken, I had the privilege of sitting down with Wendy Babcock, award-winning songwriter, speaker, and founder of When Stories — a platform dedicated to helping women transform their pain into purpose.

Wendy’s journey is one of unimaginable courage. At just sixteen, she entered a relationship with a man thirteen years her senior. Over time, the red flags turned into patterns of control, isolation, and emotional abuse. By the time she was a young mother, Wendy’s every move was monitored — every phone call, every outing, every moment of independence questioned.

But there came a day — standing alone in an empty trailer with her two children — when she knew something had to change. That day became her when moment: the turning point where fear met freedom.

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From Toxic Love to True Connection: How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Real Love
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

From Toxic Love to True Connection: How to Rebuild Confidence and Find Real Love

Have you ever found yourself repeating the same relationship patterns, wondering why you attract people who drain your energy or diminish your worth? You’re not alone. In a recent episode of the Bent Not Broken podcast, I sat down with Kerry Brett — master photographer, dating strategist, and author of Shot at Love — to discuss how women can break free from toxic love and rediscover their confidence.

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