From Betrayal to Baby Steps: How Reinvention Happens After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

From Betrayal to Baby Steps: How Reinvention Happens After Divorce

Reinvention after divorce rarely looks dramatic. It doesn’t arrive with instant clarity, confidence, or certainty. More often, it begins quietly—in survival mode—when life as you knew it suddenly falls apart.

In a recent episode of Bent Not Broken: Life After Divorce, I sat down with Gail Showalter, whose story is a powerful reminder that rebuilding a life after betrayal doesn’t happen all at once. It happens one baby step at a time.

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Rebuilding After Divorce: How MaLinda Perry Turned Red Flags Into Renewal
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Rebuilding After Divorce: How MaLinda Perry Turned Red Flags Into Renewal

Divorce is rarely just a legal ending—it’s an emotional unraveling, a loss of identity, and for many women, a journey back to themselves. In my conversation with MaLinda Perry, award-winning industry leader, Gallup Certified Strengths Coach, bestselling author, and founder of Happy Girls Don’t Do That, she opened up about her own deeply personal divorce story—one filled with ignored red flags, manipulation, and the slow erosion of self-worth.

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Rebuilding Life After Divorce: How Strategy, Clarity, and CBT Help You Heal
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Rebuilding Life After Divorce: How Strategy, Clarity, and CBT Help You Heal

Divorce doesn’t just end a relationship—it rewires your sense of self, your confidence, and your belief in what’s possible. In my recent conversation with Dr. Robin Buckley, executive coach, clinical psychologist, and author of Marriage Incorporated, we explored what it truly takes to rebuild your life after separation or emotional abuse. What she shared was powerful, practical, and deeply healing.

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Gray Divorce After 50: Hidden Losses, Healing, and Reinvention
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Gray Divorce After 50: Hidden Losses, Healing, and Reinvention

Gray divorce—divorce occurring after age 50—is one of the fastest-growing relationship trends of our time. In fact, as my guest Una Metz, LICSW, shared on the podcast, the rates of gray divorce have doubled for couples over 50 and tripled for those over 65. And she sees it firsthand: in just two days, two women in their seventies reached out for support.

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Listening to the Voice Within After Divorce and Trauma
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

Listening to the Voice Within After Divorce and Trauma

Starting over after divorce—or after emotional abuse, heartbreak, or trauma—can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself. Many women describe this season as survival mode: making decisions out of necessity rather than clarity, doubting themselves, and questioning every step forward.

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When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

When “Fair” Means Losing Everything: Finding Strength After Divorce

One of the most painful truths about divorce is that words can suddenly change meaning.

Fair becomes punishment.
Love becomes leverage.
Connection becomes control.

This isn’t just about property. It’s about power — and the deep wound that forms when someone you once trusted chooses harm over humanity.

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💔 From Broken to Balanced: Healing After Divorce
Deborah Griffiths Deborah Griffiths

💔 From Broken to Balanced: Healing After Divorce

In this powerful conversation, host Deborah Griffiths sits down with Dr. JC Doornick—father, mentor, entrepreneur, podcaster, author, and founder of Make Sense Academy. Together, they dive deep into the realities of divorce, resilience, and rebuilding life with purpose.

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