Last week, I released an episode from my podcast, Bent Not Broken, that discussed unresolved trauma and its impact. Having dealt with some trauma in my own life, I was surprised to learn how unresolved trauma can manifest itself in our bodies – physically and emotionally – and I wanted to learn more.

Suicide affects people in deeply personal ways. For some, it means living through an attempt. For others, it means facing the unimaginable loss of someone they loved. Both experiences bring profound pain — and both require understanding, compassion, and informed support.

As I’ve been interviewing guests for my new podcast, Bent Not Broken: Starting Over After Abuse, several have mentioned the term “covert narcissist.” I’ve experienced narcissistic behavior before, but it made me wonder—what’s the difference between a narcissist and a covert one? The word “narcissist” has become more familiar in recent years as research sheds light on this complex personality disorder.

Why Early Recognition Matters

Suicide is often preventable. Most people who consider suicide exhibit signs before they act. Some of these signs are subtle while others are more obvious. Recognizing those signs and responding quickly can save a life. Asking the right questions, staying present, and connecting with someone who can help may be the most important thing you ever do.

Suicide is rarely caused by a single event. It often builds over time. This post explores the spectrum of suicidal thoughts, key risk factors, and life-saving protective factors. Understanding this process is a critical step toward compassion, prevention, and hope.

Last week was a tough one. More school shootings, the assassination of Charlie Kirk, the murder of an Ukrainian immigrant, and the 24th anniversary of the 9/11 terror attacks all weighed heavily. Thousands lost their lives that day in 2001, and countless more lives have been impacted since.

Here’s a News Flash!

I’ve been in a funk this week. There, I said it!

Yes, me—the person who’s always talking about self-esteem and positivity. The same person who usually comes across as cool, calm, and collected. The same person who truly understands what it means to battle one’s own mindset.