My last article dealt with the increase in abuse cases during the holiday season. There are several reasons, but the fact remains that this is a sad reality for some. For those lucky enough not to have experienced abuse (and, yes, you are very fortunate), the question becomes, how would you really recognize it at family gatherings or holiday parties. Here’s the top five ways people experience gaslighting and domestic abuse, with examples to illustrate each type.

The holiday season is often seen as a time of joy, celebration, and connection. It’s a season of twinkling lights, festive gatherings, and cherished memories with loved ones. But behind the cheerful façade, there’s a hidden reality that too often goes unnoticed: for many, the holidays are a time of fear and isolation.

The holiday season is difficult for many people, especially for victims of domestic violence. Here are some reasons the holidays are especially hard for victims of domestic abuse: